MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

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  • 8 Red flags on your internet dating profile
    There are a lot of important things you should consider when starting up with internet dating. But your profile is by far the most important. It's your first line of offense, ... For detail, click here.
  • 8 Tips on writing a better profile
    Some easily fixed mistakes:1. Many people quickly answer the questions, filling in only the basics for topics regarding personal interests- Imagine yourself in a conversation ... For detail, click here.
  • A complete and detailed profile is the most successful way to meet new people
    Many of us find writing about ourselves difficult. This can result in profiles that do not say much about us. This is a wasted opportunity. Having current pictures up is a gre ... For detail, click here.
  • Amend your profile when necessary - don't worry about writing the perfect profile!
    1. Include a decent photo - a picture worth a thousand words. Upload a recent one, and don't forget to smile.2. Say something good about yourself - if you have a talent or are ... For detail, click here.
  • Ask opposite sex (friends) to rate your profile/pictures
    You are not choosing yourself but someone from the opposite sex. There is a reason why they say women are from Venus and men are from Mars. They don't think like you; they don ... For detail, click here.
  • Be honest about your marital status
    Men and women create profiles on sites like these for many reasons. A main reason is that they can weed out what they want and don't want in a mate. It would not be fair ... For detail, click here.
  • Be sure to have an accurate profile
    Current photos, accurate age, height, and weight should give your partner a realistic indication of who they have been anxiously looking forward to meeting. We all want to ful ... For detail, click here.
  • Clarity and honesty helps attract the right people
    Be clear and honest with what you put on your profile. This applies equally to women and men. If you absolutely will not do something or do not want to meet certain types of ... For detail, click here.
  • Consider your audience
    I have read a lot of profiles on this site and noticed some consistent patterns with those I don't take seriously. It's awesome to have a photo, but more than that. I am look ... For detail, click here.
  • Did you post a photo that you would be proud to show your friends? Your parents?
    Users can tell how serious you are about an arrangement, by the work, or lack thereof, you put into your profile. Your profile is you, in written form. Things that attract ar ... For detail, click here.
  • Do not be negative in profile
    Have you ever gone out on a first date where the person you were with complained about his/her work, ex, etc? Such negative talk is a major turnoff. Likewise, negativity is a ... For detail, click here.
  • Do not contain sexual innuendo in your username or introduction
    Some guys may want to know that many 'good girls' do not like to see usernames or introductions with sexual innuendo. Examples include using the number 69, words like 'fingers ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't be too general - be specific! Like 'I'm really sarcastic or I love to read.
    I notice that a lot of people describe themselves as being sarcastic. That's helpful. It would be even better if you gave us an example of your famous sarcasm. I know it's a c ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't give your name as your username
    There's been a subject of concern I've noticed since being on here. Many people tend to list their names in their profiles and as their user names. To me, this is a serious co ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't make your profile difficult to read!
    Profile text is what will make someone genuinely want to message you (especially if you don't have a picture on your profile), so don't put people off from reading what you've ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't put too much importance on the income listed in a profile
    As a woman looking at a man's profile, I look at almost everything else before income. If it's there cool if not I consider it private information that would be a topic of con ... For detail, click here.
  • Fill out the "questions for my matches" section with something fun and insightful.
    We're all in the same boat when it comes to trying to find a relationship after our diagnosis. That being said, there are different ways to increase connections with the peopl ... For detail, click here.
  • Focus on yourself in the profile
    I have read many many profiles (of men AND women) on many different dating sites. Unfortunately, all too often, some stand out for very negative reasons. Before I get into tha ... For detail, click here.
  • Honesty is really the best policy
    It is better to put yourself 'out there' by being honest from the beginning. You could hide important things about yourself to increase the number of potential matches in your ... For detail, click here.
  • How to create an interesting profile
    The key to successful dating online is a well-written user profile. A profile is a unique, customizable area on an online dating site that contains biographical information ab ... For detail, click here.

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