MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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  • Inform your previous partners of your current STD status.
    After my diagnosis, I went to the last 3 men I had slept with to inform them of my current STD status. I was prepared for a backlash from them, but each one was understanding, ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't compare past relationships with your date
    Dating and relationships are chock-full of lessons, experiences, intimacy, and interpersonal exchanges. Whether two people make arrangements to go on a first date or are going ... For detail, click here.
  • Just be aware when it's all the ex's fault
    Someone who constantly talks badly about their exes could be hiding a strong narcissistic personality or simply can't take responsibility for their actions. Often, when I woul ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't go into detail about your ex
    Don't talk about your ex unless the other person specifically asks. It's okay to casually mention your past relationships in conversation, for example, 'My longest relationshi ... For detail, click here.
  • It's always important not bringing up the past too much
    In the past, I have talked a little too much about my ex-partners. I noticed that it hurt what was going on in front of me. Sometimes the past should stay in the past. Unless ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't ask and don't tell
    When starting a new relationship, old flames, and flings can be a touchy subject. When in doubt, express how the last relationship has prepared you for your next relationship. ... For detail, click here.
  • When asked about previous relationships on the first date.
    when asked about a previous relationship keep the conversation light, especially on the first date. Nothing is more of a mood killer than a first date going on a long-winded r ... For detail, click here.

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