MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

Dating can be tricky, but help is here. Explore real advice and lessons shared by fellow members to make your experience safer and more fun.
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  • New love won't replace an old love
    I'm a widow and found the concept of dating again quite difficult for many years. I'm young - my husband passed away 2 months after our wedding day, after 2 years of battling ... For detail, click here.
  • Lose the relationship, not your life
    You are a self-sufficient, intelligent female. You are strong, independent, and successful. You are someone who can handle break-ups; you can brush the dirt off your shoulder ... For detail, click here.
  • 28 Tips for dating after coming directly out of a relationship
    Any dating at any age is hard, especially after coming directly out of a relationship. If that is the case: (1) Start with a casual friendship process first. (2) Don't rush ... For detail, click here.
  • Am I ready to date?
    A breakup is a deeply emotional life transition for most individuals. The old adage, "it takes time to heal," rings true. For longer relationships, the healing process can tak ... For detail, click here.
  • Avoid spiteful disclosure of your ex's condition.
    I think it's very hard for people to open up and be honest about their condition, whatever it might be. I've had people tell me the ex they hate has "this." It's really import ... For detail, click here.
  • Avoid things that trigger sadness and reinforce things that produce joy
    Are you feeling lovesick and want to get better? So, you're single again and want to feel better and stop feeling miserable. Give yourself time to grieve the relationship - th ... For detail, click here.
  • Considering dating after loosing a loved partner
    After the loss of a loved partner, be it due to the dissolving of a relationship, divorce, or death, be sure to give yourself time to heal. Jumping too quickly into a new rela ... For detail, click here.
  • Dating advice for widows
    As a widow, the person you date will express a natural curiosity about your deceased spouse. And as a widow, you will probably want to talk about your deceased spouse. If your ... For detail, click here.
  • Dating after divorce: just be open and find the chemistry back
    It is difficult for some to get back into the swing of things after a long, difficult marriage and divorce. One may have concerns with trusting and respecting others, especial ... For detail, click here.
  • Discuss the ex after 4-5 healthy dates
    The question is always, "Do I tell him about my ex, and when do I do it?" I always suggest bringing them up after 4-5 healthy dates. And when you do, leave it plain and simple ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't be bitter
    Making mental lists of all the reasons an ex was bad, and going over and over in your head the reasons why you're better off, can work for the better in some circumstances. Bu ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't compare your ex to your current match
    It's great to learn from past experiences, but don't expect the same behaviors, qualities, likes and dislikes—and even motivations—from your new partner. That woul ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't let your ex affect your current date
    On a first and second date, only focus on you and the intended partner. Ignore the impulse to bring up past failures with your exes. Dedicate this special time to getting to k ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't start a conversation with "my ex used to..."
    Picture this: It's your first date. You're nervous, he's nervous, you're both wondering what to talk about to gain some common ground... Nervously, he asks you how the weather ... For detail, click here.
  • How to forget about your ex
    Everyone knows it's hard to break up with an ex and totally forget about them. Here are a few tips to get you moving on up: 1. Delete their number. Once it's gone, you won't ... For detail, click here.
  • How to handle questions about the ex
    While it's important to make it clear that you are single and that you are "OVER" your last relationship, it's natural for an interested party to wonder and question about you ... For detail, click here.
  • How to tell when you're ready to date after a breakup
    If you find yourself in the position of dating again after a breakup, make sure you are ready to date again. One way to tell is if you never seem to get past the first date an ... For detail, click here.
  • Is it ok to date a friend's ex?
    This is a tricky topic, and while many people have strong feelings against this (never! friends come first!), I think there are some gray areas to be considered. Ask yourself ... For detail, click here.
  • Leave baggage at the bottom of the stairs
    Everyone has baggage. Even if you think you don't, you probably do. However, while we all have it, either from past bad relationships or situations we'd rather forget, it's im ... For detail, click here.
  • Leave the past in the past
    A new relationship is a fresh start to let someone into your life and should be cherished. Bringing up the past and going on about your exes and the problems you encountered w ... For detail, click here.

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